In 1976, I was walking around the halls of John Jay College as a pimply faced freshman, who felt lost because I filled out my college application incorrectly and was selected to go to a school that I had no intention of attending.I had always wanted to be a nurse. I attended a nursing vocational high school and I thought I was filling out the application to a nursing college, but God knew better. One day I bumped into the man I now refer to as, “My King James” (my life partner) and the rest is history. We’ve had a roller coaster ride during those 43 years. I’ve taken the best parts of that journey, the things that have worked and helped us to grow closer together to become better people and I put them into this project.